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"What a joy to be nestled in grandma's overstuffed wicker chair,
sipping chilled lemonade, and nibbling on one of her moist peanut
butter cookies while enjoying the comfort of her porch."
We
may recount such words, remembering the memorable days of congregating
as a family on our beloved grandma's porch. Hummingbirds and the
rapid wiz of their wings tickled our ears as they suckled the sweet
nectar from fragrant blooms. As we look back we stand in awe of
the days as youngsters when we witnessed the occasional reunions
of neighbors as they gathered on the security of our porch to fill
us in on their winter happenings, and at the same time we brought
them up to date on our summer plans.
Today
as I journeyed out my front door I glanced at the many porches that
lined the homes on my street. Some had decorations, others were
bare, but all were lonesome; not a soul was to be found enjoying
them. Summer weather had no effect in beckoning my neighbors to
the heart of their homes: their porches.
"Are
they crazy?" I questioned as I went throughout my day. Contrary
to what I have come to understand concerning the people on my block
I find great delight and solace on my porch. With my Bible and loving
conversation with the Lord my porch becomes a cathedral and a sanctuary
where I can only but praise Him. I have joyously found days of Heaven
upon Earth.
The
days of yesteryear may seem ancient to us, but they still move us,
wooing us to come and enjoy the rich splendor of soothing face to
face conversation with our neighbors. Our porches are empty in this
high-tech age.
In
a lot of ways we resemble the hummingbird. Watch their little heads
and beady eyes as their bodies move in and out of the flowers. They
don't pause. And neither do we. Often our thoughts are someplace
else while we attempt to have those "porch talks." Like the hummingbird
we hurriedly move from one thing to another. Our birdbrain nature
may cause us to be withdrawn.
I
don't know about you but those days visiting grandma on the porch
certainly stir my heart, drawing me back, and at the same time birthing
in me a new desire to bring back those times when neighbors were
freely welcomed to visit. In the past, Sunday's were sacred, and
restful, and the porches were always occupied.
How
can we reproduce such a beautiful arrangement of quality moments
on our porches? What can we do to draw our neighbors into our lives?
How can we win the hearts of kindred spirits so we can once again
create those memorable and nurturing times which we all very much
need?
Slowing
down is one of the best tricks to enable us to use our creativity.
To get started ask yourself these questions; "Where do you go to
find rest when you are tired? Does the plump cushioned wicker couch
seem to soothe your aching body? Then bring it to the porch.
By
providing comfortable seats and layering warm quilts, blankets,
and soft throws on the sofa you will make quite an inviting place.
What kinds of treats do you call comfort foods? My favorite is my
mother's homemade tapioca pudding. It takes time to make, but it
is well worth it, and our guests always crave it.
Do
you have a specialty dessert? Make it. What kind of birds or wildlife
do you treasure watching? Plant their favorite flowers or hang bird
feeders and houses and you will have succeeded in creating your
own sanctuary.
Are
you shy and lonely and don't know how to go about attracting others?
Read the bestseller from the 1930's "How to Win Friends and Influence
People" by Dale Carnegie. (Read it while on your porch.)
By
creating an enjoyable atmosphere that is comfortable, and by enticing
weary people with scrumptious delights, topped off with pure heart
to heart conversations you will be the talk of your community. You
can create big things, with a cup of tea, a good book, and an inviting
porch.
As
for my porch it is a subtle winsome place that is enjoyed by many.
Our guests find it an oasis, a delicacy to be savored, a favorite
part of the house where we are free to observe nature. A comfortable
couch, two chairs, three stands, a kitchen table set and natural
stone fountains grace what we have come to call paradise. Writing
is a favorite activity at my house and the porch is a wonderful
place to do just that.
My
young friend Kristin who suffers from autoimmune disorders sees
my porch as a getaway where she naps for hours at a time while I
type my children's books. Garden parties, birthday celebrations
and tea time is observed on the porch. Outdoor extravaganzas are
fun but much more exciting when held outside under a roof where
rainstorms are not a bother. Whether you have a porch facing the
front of your house on a busy street or one in your secluded backyard,
make a date with choice foods and engaging company, and you may
discover your porch is the only place you want to be.
Let
your heart that seeks after comfort find its resting place on a
porch fashioned by you. Let the spirit of Grandma's porch live on.
Now
here is my recipe for tapioca pudding:
Tapioca
Pudding Recipe
Mix
2 quarts milk
3/4
cups sugar.
Bring
milk and sugar to a boil.
Add
3/4 cups pearl tapioca.
Cook
and stir until tapioca balls are clear, about 30-45 min.
Beat
3 eggs.
Combine
with 3/4 cup sugar and one cup milk.
Add
some of the hot tapioca mixture slowly while stirring into the cold
egg mixture. Then mix all together in the pan and bring to a full
rolling boil, stirring constantly.
Cook
for about three minutes. Remove from heat and add 1 tsp. vanilla.
A
slower method I use to avoid scorching is in the first step. I bring
the milk and sugar to a boil, add the tapioca, remove from heat,
stir carefully every so often, and let stand (covered) for 1 to
3 hrs. This softens the tapioca and you don't have to stand stirring
it for 45 minutes. Then combine with the remaining eggs, sugar,
and milk.
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